Pay-to-play sucks hard. Very very hard. But tell me what your solution is. Who is going to change that overall? Where is the cash going to come from? Part of the problem. The US is HUGE. It is hard to get places.
The MLS teams are changing this. They are charging nothing for their MLS Next(formerly the US development Academy squads). It is cheap labor for them. Kids pay absolutely nothing for their uniforms, travel, and coaching They don't have to pay transfer fees for them and pay them low salaries initially. They sign the kids early on as well. Look under the player category where it says homegrown.
Some of them have big rivalries locally. In Denver, it is Real Colorado. Rapids are not better in many age groups. A lot of this is.
None of these kids are playing high school. The MLS teams don't allow it. High school has real talent disparity both in talent in other teams, their teams, and coaching.
Official roster of the Colorado Rapids
www.coloradorapids.com
Locally many of them have big rivalries. In Denver, it is Real Colorado. Rapids are not better in many age groups. Real has a ton of teams in every age group and big sponsorships from places like the Children's Hospital but I am not sure if that pays for their MLS next team. A lot of this is because of where the kids live and the travel sucks.
But there is crazy

. Sophia Smith and Jallen Howell drove from Fort Collins to play on Real Colorado. She started last night in the CONCACAF Olympic finals for the US women. I know there are at least 3 girls that travel from Arkansas to train with the ECNL teams in Tulsa. I am sure similar stuff here.
None of these kids are playing high school. The MLS teams don't allow it because they are picking up the tab. High school has real talent disparity both in talent in other teams, their teams, and coaching. If that came to here, it would only be one squad. This city is just too small. Kids would not play high school. That is a big ask here. Kids love it because it is fun. That is designed to ABSOLUTELY get them to the next level.
Things are different overseas. The system here is not designed to develop players locally and then get the professional teams promoted or sell them. We would have FC Tulsa trying to use the kids to get them to get into the MLS.
There are other problems but I am done typing