I realize you have thanked TUBla & Lawpoke, despite some occasional hard criticism. That's great that you did the hard criticism, and also great that you eventually thanked them despite your hard criticism. I wasn't commenting on your dealings with them, only with HonkvnotHonky. They have essentially been on this board for a long time, and won't be affected by hard criticism on the Other Sports board.
This is not as obvious with HonkvnotHonky. He hasn't been here as long, and probably doesn't have the ties to TU keeping him here. It just seemed unnecessarily rude to act that way with him so early on, after him excitedly joining this board. He has not really even had any hardcore, in your face conflict/debate with you yet. That would be when I would think you would pull that type of language out.
The abrasiveness was a bit more organic with Lawpoke & TUBla, and it really wasn't with this poster. Just seemed a little premature to be so abrasive with him. I wouldn't have even thought to make that comment if the argument was with TUBla or Lawpoke. Not even sure if Honkv has been here long enough to see those comments thanking Lawpoke & TUBla. He only joined the board about a month ago.
From my experience, soccer is a sport that exudes a lot of passion and perspectives, and in America, there is an immense amount of ignorance. Even now, many of the foreigners here are full of dook. If you had an accent, especially British, you were given a lot of credence to coach because you came for a soccer play and played the game at some level. In reality, lots of these foreigners are really, really full of dook and a lot of Americans are full of dook too. If you are parent that doesn't come from a background, it makes it hard to understand.
Now, America is more complicated. In the past, there was just competition and rec within each club, including places like Solar and Texans, having ONE team in each age group. That was roughly 18 teams or so. Now, Solar has over 215 youth teams! There are a lot of tiers, and those tiers are still shaking out. The leagues are constantly evolving.
The MLS teams want to cordon off their talent even more and don't want to be involved with the likes of Solar or, Texans or Real Colorado.
ECNL does their thing. Think what will happen if the NWSL tries to get academies going. That could mean bye-bye, ECNL girls.
USL-A is trying to do something. NPL, GA, and a host of other abbreviations are trying to make names for themselves. Inevitably, someone will embezzle money, sleep with someone else's wife or retire, and the league will fold.
Meanwhile, US Soccer is just shrugging its shoulders and saying do whatever you want. We will come to find players.
In the background, you have parents who are sick of travel, the expenses, and the inability to play locally. It sucks. You don't have that issue in places like southern California or Texas. But in Colorado, Nebraska, and Oklahoma. It is a big, big issue. When your team sucks, it isn't fun.
Now, in the middle of this, they are going to an age change to shake up some things.
I guess this place helps you coordinate your thoughts and perspective.
But listen to someone like Lawpoke, whose daughter is fantastic and plays at someplace super cutthroat like FC Dallas. If you don't perform, they will axe your ass with no qualms. Five others are willing to jump right in and take your spot. In Tulsa, you have a much different dynamic. If you haven't lived in a big market or been around those clubs, you don't understand that dynamic as much. Tulsa they are just trying to hold a team together right now. It is sad. It is even more pathetic now that players are jumping markets because they don't believe our local team is up to the task.
I guess this place helps you coordinate your thoughts and perspective. I like listening to Bla's manager's perspective and interaction with the clubs. He and Lawpoke have interesting perspectives on dealing with colleges. That stuff is going to change.
Whether you think my responses are tart, It is also interesting to hear how a division team is dealing with being down in the dirt (honkv). It is also interesting listening to what they believe needs leadership change.
The landscape is never settled in this country, especially Tulsa.
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