There's 3 players from Bettendorf, IA on the roster this season. There are 6 from the DFW area. There is 1 from Eureka, MO which is a small suburb on the very southwestern edge of St. Louis. And the players from OK were good players but not anywhere close to being the best on their club or HS squads. 1 from Kansas City. There seem to be a good number from Florida (but they're all related). Point is, that's a lot of players from a small city that probably has so-so soccer at best relative to where we're seeing the other players come from.
If what you're saying is true, he's only recruiting players who contact him first, this is the wrong approach. It also tells me he doesn't quite get what TU is about and being able to sell the small private education to potential players. We've had coaches excel at that aspect (Tom for one). How hard is it to recruit Dallas/Ft. Worth, Kansas City, and St. Louis...all places with high level youth soccer clubs. TU being in the middle of that triangle should make it easy to bring in some really good players.
By contrast, look at the men's program. Lot of international kids (Spain, Germany, Netherlands, Ghana) who have CC experience. Few kids from Dallas, few from KC, some scattered around the country and a few of the best players from Tulsa. I don't know how Tom is finding the kids from Spain but there are 5 on the roster. I'm not saying we should only be recruiting international kids but maybe Rhein should ask Tom a few questions about how he goes about it. Heck one of the best players in the NCAA was the Florida State player who was from Jamaica...who then became an international star during the World Cup. There are hidden gems out there who can play but you've got to do some actual work to ID and get them here. And you're right, Rhein needs to invite these girls to camp for free...there are enough dreamers who sign up and pay the exorbitant ID camp fees hoping they get noticed.