What is rude vs not rude? Dave is pretty nice to his peeps. How much actual competitive sports has your daughter played? I like Dave personally and get along with him very well as an official. He is a cynical ass, which I find hilarious. There is a big difference between making fun of 17-year-old boys' dumb decision-making and saying girls are incapable of anything at all, like Joao did. He is the best coach Owasso has had. Owasso has some talent now, which does help, too, and they lost in the semis this year.
As for the Brazilian homey Joao, he said to his girls they are incapable of doing anything and entirely worthless. Screw that. Again, there is a big difference between listening to me and making fun of them doing silly things, telling them they are idiots for coaching and saying they should never do it because women are incapable of coaching. It's intolerable.
I told my wife about the Joao incident, and another person said to me about it last night at practice without prompting me, so it is making the rounds. My wife and I agreed we would walk out on a team like that regardless of how good the team was and how good we thought he was making our daughter technically. You got to stand for something.