Fair. The boys seem to have their stuff together a little more right now regarding competitiveness. But their teams are almost always competitive. Maybe one age group might suck, but that is rare. If Tulsa teams are mid to upper-tier, that is solid in my opinion. Some may not think that, but we face a significant population disadvantage, and some other clubs take a few other players away. That could make a big difference.
I have two close friends in various age groups who went on a tirade about how disorganized OFC is on the ECNL side, from referees showing up to how they manage game days to the effort from the club in Edmond. They say it is appalling. I have been in OKC for nine years, so I can't speak firsthand, but these are two highly involved people. Their sons both grew up in OFC, played for their entire careers on OFC's top team the whole time, and coached and refereed at high levels. They are not hyperbolic drama queens.
My son is just getting started in his soccer journey in academy soccer. He is the youngest age and plays a year up in the 2017s. The amount of week-to-week gossip and vanity is unreal. So many parents have no idea what kids need at the younger levels. It's just amazing. I played competitively growing up. The landscape is vastly different 28 years from when it began. The Academy did not start at age 4. Everyone jumped in 5th grade. I have friends at different levels here, in OKC, CO, of different ages and gender levels who play ECNL, MLS Next, college, etc... It's just hilarious to see who gets all bent out of shape and who doesn't. Some of it seems to be how they grew up and played. They have all been spanked at times, but they understand the development process. Others don't seem to. His development in one year has been tremendous. I try not to care if we lose to a particular club 5-0 in one week at age 5. Half of his team is playing up a year on the top team. None of them had ever played organized soccer before this season. The gap between the other teams has closed. There are dumb, dumb mistakes that won't happen a year from now when they are probably playing in their age group. I have to force myself to breathe a little. These problems can easily be fixed. It doesn't matter in a couple of years when we change coaches. All that matters is technical work. It is about having fun and technically improving. Some of the teams are not as technical.
They can't lose their love for the game at the youngest ages. I think the parents and specific coaches can ruin that for them. I don't want to be that parent. We just have to go mess about at the house, watch the Premier League, say how awesome Saka is, take him to George's with the other Arsenal idiots, buy him jerseys, play with his other five-year-old soccer bros who are obsessed, play in good games, learn from their mistakes, improve and get better and have fun.
I worry so much that this stuff might be too early. They are training a lot at the younger ages and aren't scoring a million goals in rec like we did. Playing in random rec games, they score a million goals and run teams off the field. The other parents get pissed that they are slide-tackling and celebrating like Ronaldo after goals. They have been called dicks (not joking). It's wild.
I digress....For the record, I like reading your posts, TUbla and Lawpoke. We all have different perspectives. Lawpoke's daughter is crushing it, and she puts in unreal amounts of work and time.