You can tell the coaches who are chasing trophies...it’s not a good thing at your daughters age because winning becomes more important than development. Donovan Rickett’s came in and told parents straight up...I don’t care if we win a game, I want to make sure the boys improve their skill and learn to understand and love the game. And sure enough that’s exactly what happened. And if the coach is teaching the right things and the kids put their focus and effort into those things at practice AND can carry them to a game, the winning part takes care of itself without being the primary focus.If your coaching knows what they are doing and you are playing the same teams again and again it’s a unique opportunity to develop the skills of your players to exploit the weaknesses of the other teams rather just trying to run, pass or muscle around the opposing side like most USA coaches want to do. This is why “professional” coaches in the USA are a joke. You should be looking forward to playing Edmond again, and your daughter facing number 11 again but this time she has the back cut down the wing to beat her she didn’t have last year or the combo you taught her last month has 11 tied in knots because she’s unbalanced to her weak side. That’s what youth soccer is about, not going to Orlando or winning 20 games
What's funny is the first thing our coach told us over winter break is that we weren't going to win a lot of the games he had scheduled but it would make us better. We then proceeded to play in the academy boys indoor league and play a year up in every game except the two Edmond teams and the top TSC team. You obviously get very little out of playing over matched squads. It is still nice to play different teams even if that means traveling out of state. I can assure you Orlando had nothing to do with winning or "what soccer is about" but was solely scheduled as a trip to Disney World for the girls with a little soccer mixed in.