This isnt a game. Its not something where you can be "lenient" or look the other way.This, according to what I’ve seen has not been proven to be true.
Two U.S. officials speaking on condition of anonymity stated that the target of the October 14, 2011, airstrike was Ibrahim al-Banna, an Egyptian believed to be a senior operative in al-Qaeda in the Arabian Peninsula.[8] Another U.S. administration official speaking on condition of anonymity described Abdulrahman al-Awlaki as a bystander who was "in the wrong place at the wrong time", stating that "the U.S. government did not know that Mr. Awlaki's son was there" before the airstrike was ordered.
I’m more lenient if it were unintentional, I’m also more lenient when it did involve actual combatants (which can unfortunately result in collateral damage of non-combatants) even so, the situation we’re discussing should certainly have the ability to be punished if it’s severe enough.
If you had any experience in this area, you would know that, even in a war zone, where two or more state actors are in a state of war, you still have an affirmative duty to take every practicable step to avoid innocent loss of life, as well as undertake the killing, if otherwise justified, using principles of proportionality and distinction. This is basic law of warfare stuff. What you are quoting is basically a confession that laws were violated because they failed to take these precautions and the death of an American child resulted. And they are obviously authorized "leaks" to try to mitigate the blowback from this incident.