The tuition thing is overblown btw. See my response over in the thread on the student debt. If they are given the full .5 and have any type of academic promise, between grants, merit, and discount, TU is just as affordable for players. Its what Rick's new Sports Academy program is all about. Any parent that says that TU didn't come up with a competitive offer approached the conversation wrong or has plenty of money is just looking for a free lunch. TU quite rightly tells a lot of those people to go up the road. If both you and your wife went to OSU, your daughter has visited there, she has an offer to play there, why should TU hold open a partial and discount pricing for someone who is going to end up over there at the end of the recruiting period? Dad doesn't help things by approaching the conversation with the tone rudely stated or implied: she's going to OSU, unless she can go here for free. Match our OSU offer or I will bad mouth you at parents meetings. Much like a lot of the grumbling locally amongst coaches, "uncles", and unrecruited former players in football, what you hear about being recruited or not recruited by TU has two sides to both the story and the relationship. Take it with a grain of salt.