But you support government funded anti abortion clinics?
They all support lobbyists in congress and Republican & Democratic campaigns. You are deluding yourself if you don't think so. Direct or indirect doesn't matter. Supporting lobbyists and politicians is more money on the table for both sides of the the issue. If the right party wins, or the lobbyists help push a bill through, that's bread on their books.
You want to pay for your wife's, daughters, or granddaughters extremely high priced services at one or the other? Because if they didn't get government funding you would be paying for research through your bills. Everything is not as simple as you think it is. You can't fund one through subsidies and not the other.
You also need to get your figures right when quoting government support. When two thirds of the 'support' you quote is payment through Medicare and Medicaid for services rendered, not subsidies for projects. If they have private donations that equal or exceed the government subsidies(which they do) then they have every right to donate to politicians and take a tax break for those donations.