Yeah, this isn't the perception that I hear from TU grads or from OSU grads. OSU grads (my wife included) view us as an elitist school. My degree has gone much farther than hers has, not for a lack of effort on her part and that's despite a downturn in my industry. I'm currently looking to backfill my old position in my company. I am lobbying for TU grads because I know the rigorous nature of our engineering department as well as the relationship our engineers have with the computer science field. On the contrary, outside of maybe the OU grad school, I would be hard pressed to consider any random OU or OSU graduate because I know the lack of rigor that their engineering programs consisted of by comparison. (That's not to say I'm unwilling to consider them, just that their degree impresses me less than others) I also know that we (TU) had a much higher average quality of student as the classes matriculated in terms of talent and intelligence. In my experience, our engineers on average ran circles around those from nearby institutions. Our main competition during my time around 10 years ago was A&M or Colorado School of Mines. OU was an afterthought and OSU wasn't thought of at all.
Now, that's probably not equal given every single degree program. Obviously OU has some tremendous talent in their school of medicine and OSU has their agricultural pursuits.... but in engineering I will take Tulsa everyday and twice on Sundays.